THE ACHIEVEMENT DIGEST "TAD" Issue No. 45
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WHAT'S IN THIS ISSUE?
QUOTABLE QUOTES
LEADERSHIP LESSONS
LINCOLN'S LOG
FEEDBACK
TRAVEL NOTES FROM A ROAD WARRIOR
VALUABLE RESOURCES FOR YOUR PERSONAL GROWTH
AWARDS
We’re
pleased to be the recipient of two highly-regarded awards.
One is the Kay Herman Legacy Award, which is the highest award given by
the Georgia Chapter of the National Speakers Association. The criteria
for this award include: “Has actively participated at the national level;
stands as a positive role model within the chapter and NSA, and has
unselfishly spent time helping other speakers grow; uses ethical practices
in business; continuously pursues a higher level of professionalism.”
With these criteria, you can see why I am grateful to receive this
recognition from my peers.
The
second is for my CD “Lessons From Legends” which won “best educational
album” in the JPF annual award competition--the largest music awards
program in the world. This year JPF received 350,000 songs and over
25,000 albums in 70 genres from over 100 countries. According to JPF,
the sole criterion for the judges was, “Does it move you?”
“Lessons
From Legends” is a recording before a live audience of several thousand
people in which I tell stories from my exclusive interviews with
celebrities. If you’d like to obtain multiple copies of this CD, contact
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QUOTABLE QUOTES
***PROMISES
“We must not promise what we ought not, lest we be called on to perform
what we cannot.”
--Abraham Lincoln
***FAVORS
“He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another
than he whom you yourself have obliged.”
--Benjamin Franklin
***CONSCIENCE
“I cannot and will not cut my conscience to fit this year’s fashions.”
--Lillian Hellman
***FEAR
“There is no terror in a bang, only in the anticipation of it.”
--Alfred Hitchcock
***FOLLY
“The best way to convince a fool that he is wrong is to let him have his
own way.”
--Traditional saying
***SCIENCE
“Science commits suicide when it adopts a creed.”
--Thomas H. Huxley
***FAMILY SUPPORT
“I can’t stand the sight of dwarfs…I predict nobody’ll ever pay a dime to
see a dwarf picture.”
--Lillian Disney, wife of Walt Disney, about “Snow White”
LEADERSHIP LESSONS
The Darkness Before Dawn
Many
readers told me that chapter three of THE ACHIEVEMENT FACTORS, entitled
“Persistence”, has meant the most to them. That chapter describes the
little-known early struggles of individuals whose names later became
synonymous with success. Celebrities spoke candidly with me about
poverty, closed doors, unreturned phone calls, years of rejection and the
anguish and despondency that they felt. Their stories dispelled any
notion I might ever have harbored that success is easy.
Since
writing that book I have continued to collect true stories that illustrate
the achievement factors. Here’s one—about Steven Spielberg—that I’d like
to share with you. According to Vanity Fair, Spielberg had directed a
few films but he had never had a box-office hit when he was given a budget
of $3.5 million to do “Jaws.” From the first day, “Jaws” was plagued
with problems. The actors and director quarreled, the fake sharks
wouldn’t function properly, and one sank. The crew began to call the
movie “Flaws” behind Spielberg’s back.
If you
think Spielberg dealt with all these setbacks serenely, confidently with
infectious optimism, you’re wrong. Spielberg thought his career was
over. Here’s what he told Vanity Fair about his final night after
wrapping the shoot and flying back to LA: “That night I had a full-blown
anxiety attack. I thought I was going crazy. I was lying in bed alone,
sweating, heart palpitations. If I got out of bed, I’d pass out. I was
a complete wreck.”
Now
comes a powerful part of the story. “Jaws” was sneak-previewed in Dallas
in March of 1975. Spielberg stood in the back watching the audience.
When the boy on the raft was killed, Spielberg watched in horror as a man
on the front row got up and began to run toward the exit. The man reached
the lobby and vomited all over the carpet, went to the bathroom, and
returned to his seat.
Spielberg recalls, “That’s when I knew we had a hit.”
“Jaws”
grossed almost $8 million its first weekend and went on to gross $470
million worldwide.
I wrote
on the margin of the page in Vanity Fair, “He deserves his success.”
To
conclude, here are three quotations from my own interviews from Chapter
Three of THE ACHIEVEMENT FACTORS:
“I was not an overnight success, even after I sold the strip. “Peanuts”
did not take the world by storm immediately. It was a long grind. It
took “Peanuts” about four years to attract nationwide attention, but it
took ten years to become really entrenched.”
--Charles Schulz
“There
is no success without failure.”
--Malcolm Forbes
“I was
always willing to undergo hardship or whatever it took to be able to stay
with my work. I could have quit many times—given up, because it’s no
great art in life to be poor and hungry, and that’s what I was.”
--Erskine Caldwell (For a few years Caldwell’s best-known books TOBACCO
ROAD and GOD’S LITTLE ACRE sold at a brisker pace than the Bible. Both
were adapted into Broadway plays and films.)
LINCOLN'S LOG
A valuable new book by historian Debby Applegate tells the story of the
times in which Lincoln lived through the biography of one of its most
prominent individuals. The book is entitled THE MOST FAMOUS MAN IN
AMERICA: THE BIOGRAPHY OF HENRY WARD BEECHER and tells the story of a
famous and eventually infamous preacher. In his prime, Beecher preached to
audiences of thousands, and his writing was read by millions. Beecher’s
story is a painful account of America’s growth pangs, its soul-searching
over slavery, and the wrenching internal struggles that took place during
Lincoln’s lifetime.
Beecher
was born in 1813, one year after Lincoln’s birth. He was pastor of two
churches in Indiana during the 1830s and 1840s (Lincoln moved to Illinois
from Indiana in 1830 having lived there 14 years.) It is startling to
read how primitive life was in Indiana during that time. Lawrenceville,
Indiana—his first pastorate—was a “makeshift jumble of shops, taverns, and
warehouses clustered around the wharf, and rangy, long-legged hogs roamed
the muddy streets.”
Beecher
became famous in New York City where he was pastor of the Plymouth Church
in Brooklyn Heights, one of the nation’s first mega-churches. As a
parenthetical note, in 1859 Lincoln was invited to deliver a lecture at
Beecher’s Church. At the last minute the venue was moved to The Cooper
Union (Located in Cooper Square in NYC, it now is known as The Cooper
Union For The Advancement Of Science And Art). The Cooper Union speech,
which was a sensation, made Lincoln a national figure.
When
Beecher came of age, most ministers, northern and southern alike, preached
that slavery was a divinely sanctioned institution. A reverend doctor by
the name of Leonard Woods of Andover Seminary launched a drive to persuade
fellow ministers to stamp out antislavery agitation, and Woods was not
alone. After all, the Bible stated: “Moreover of the children of the
strangers that do sojourn among you, of them shall ye buy, and of their
families that are with you, which they begat in your land; and they shall
be your possession.” (Leviticus 24:45) This Biblical passage was but one
of many that could be cited to show that God approved of slavery.
Had God
changed his mind since that revealed message? Apparently not, most
American ministers thought. Even the Apostle Paul had returned a
slave—Philemon—to his owner, which seemed to be divine instruction about
what people in free states should do with runaway slaves.
On balance, here and there were ministers who preached against slavery.
They were stigmatized as liberals, fired, physically dragged from their
pulpits, and a few paid with their lives. Beecher became a fierce
opponent of slavery, actively assisted runaway slaves, and worked
assiduously to convert fellow ministers and lay leaders to his point of
view.
The
business world almost unanimously took sides against the abolitionists.
Merchants in New York City, for example, fearing the loss of Southern
business, created a blacklist of the city’s antislavery merchants.
And in
Congress, passions ran so high that members of Congress took to taking
weapons with them on the floor. In one incident, when a member
accidentally discharged his pistol, within moments 40 to 50 pistols were
drawn.
In 1829
a Boston printer named William Lloyd Garrison called on Lyman Beecher,
Henry’s father and a famous preacher himself, to tell him that as a result
of Beecher’s sermons, he had become convinced that slavery was a heinous
sin. Christians should demand that slaveholders immediately repent and
free their slaves. Garrison appealed to Beecher to help him awaken
America’s conscience.
Lyman
Beecher put Garrison off saying that he had too many irons in the fire.
Undeterred, Garrison went to every Boston church and got the same
response. Garrison decided to go it alone. In 1831 he published the
first issue of the “Liberator”, and on its masthead were these words: “I
do not wish to think, or speak, or write, with moderation… I am in
earnest—I will not equivocate—I will not excuse—I will not retreat a
single inch—and I will be heard.”
Lyman
Beecher’s daughter, and Henry Ward Beecher’s sister, wrote the novel that
roused the nation to action: UNCLE TOM’S CABIN. Read by hundreds of
thousands of Americans and millions worldwide, passions were aroused on
both sides. When Lincoln met Harriet Beecher Stowe in 1862, the President
is said to have remarked: “So you’re the little woman who wrote the book
that started this great war.”
Lincoln
greatly admired Beecher. His wife Mary subscribed to Beecher’s
publication, the INDEPENDENT, his law partner William Herndon was a
passionate supporter of Beecher’s, and Lincoln personally attended
Plymouth Church to hear Beecher preach. Lincoln told his portrait painter
Francis B. Carpenter “there was not upon record, in ancient or modern
biography so productive a mind as had been exhibited in the career of
Henry Ward Beecher.”
This book helps us understand what Beecher, Lincoln, or anyone for that
matter, experience when they take on entrenched social institutions. How
hard it must have been to join the anti-slavery movement when virtually
everybody and everything—ministers, politicians, business leaders,
customs, prejudices, and the laws themselves—supported and protected the
institution of human bondage! This book also demonstrates that those who
have the courage to do it, and prevail, as Beecher and Lincoln did, come
to be known as heroes.
FEEDBACK
***“I think we hit a homerun yesterday. I am particularly
pleased that you were able to stay for the day’s final reflection. As I
listened to you chatting with my long-time friend, State Senator Balfour
about TEAM OF RIVALS, I was struck by his excitement at re-discovering how
timely Lincoln’s experiences are to us today. I am hopeful that
yesterday’s presentation yields further speaking business for you. It’s a
privilege for me to consider you a longtime friend.” Dave Williams
(Dave Williams is chief executive of Southtrac Inc., an active member of
Leadership Gwinnett, and one of my former students at Georgia Tech.)
***
“Thanks for your newsletter (No. 44), particularly about going
first-class. May I give you George Washington quotes? 1. To John
Hancock: ‘No person wishes more to save money to the public than I do…but
there are some cases in which parsimony may be ill placed.’ 2. To Robert
Morris, financier of the revolution. ‘We may spin the thread of economy
till it breaks.’ 3. To Phillip Marsteller ‘It is not the lowest priced
goods that are always the cheapest—the quality is, or ought to be, as much
an object with the purchaser as the price.’ Washington agrees with
you. Best, Jim aka George Washington (Jim Hodges gives inspirational
presentations and seminars as George Washington. He bears a striking
resemblance to our first President. Go look for yourself at his website
http://www.leadershipbygeorge.com/
***
“Abe…really, really enjoyed TAD. May I be put on your regular list?
Good readin’! Best to you, Gene, tytytyty (Ty Boyd is a much-loved,
much-honored media personality and professional speaker. His website is
http://www.tyboyd.com/home.html
*** “The Rural Development
Council of Michigan, along with other sponsoring organizations had the
privilege of hosting Mr. Gene Griessman as he presented ‘Abraham Lincoln’
at the Ultimate Farmland Preservation Tour Banquet. Mr. Griessman did a
phenomenal job of articulating the importance of leadership principles and
performed it in a manner unique only to Abe. Mr. Griessman was asked to
tailor his presentations and relate them to land use issues occurring in
the Mid-West in an effort to give the audience a better understanding of
the leadership component assigned with it. Not only did Mr. Griessman
grasp and deliver difficult concepts, he executed them with the ease of a
professional, as if he had spoken on the topic a hundred times before.
His presentation was entertaining as well as educational.” David
Skjaerlund, Executive Director
TRAVEL NOTES FROM A ROAD WARRIOR
TED’S MONTANA GRILL
The
latest creation of Ted Turner, these restaurants feel like up-scale
saloons with wood floors, mahogany paneling, high-backed booths, jewel
colored ceramic tiles, and pressed-tin ceilings. Everything I’ve tried
has been delicious, and I’ve tried the burgers, the blue-plate specials,
the fish, and the bison pot roast. Speaking of bison, Turner is the
world’s biggest bison farmer. The blue plate specials are a favorite of
mine. Depending on the day of the week, the offerings include meat loaf,
fish sandwiches, and turkey and dressing. As for the burgers, there are
some 20 varieties. The meat is ground on the premises. Everything is
fresh. Nothing is frozen. A local manager told me his restaurant doesn’t
own a microwave and the only freezer they own is for ice cream. Menus are
printed on recycled paper and the drinks are served in recyclable
bottles. Prices are moderate. For a list of locations, go to
www.tedsmontanagrill.com
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